Have you noticed that everyone is compiling a list of gift suggestions? Here’s my list for the job seeker/career changer in your life:
- A briefcase, portfolio, or planner that suits the individual’s style and taste,
- A serious, expensive-looking watch,
- A hair appointment with the best consultant in town: suitable for a man or a woman,
- A promise of an hour or two of good listening and debriefing after an upcoming interview accompanied by a pot of tea or whatever,
- An invitation for a long walk and conversation to share life goals and strategies to achieve them,
- An hour’s consultation with a career professional for a resume critique or a mock interview,
- A copy of the latest edition of Richard Bolles’ What Color is your Parachute?
- A hot-off-the-press copy of Maureen Anderson’s The Career Clinic: 8 Simple Rules for Finding Work You Love,
- A lunch invitation with you and your friend (who happens to be in the field the job hunter is pursuing),
- An upscale-looking pen. You have no idea how it looks to be interviewing a qualified, educated, experienced person who produces a tacky plastic pen, particularly one with an inappropriate logo.
A few thoughts about my list:
Yes, some of the items require a serious expense, but not as much as you might think. I don’t mean that the pen has to be a top-of-the-line, but it should be plain, tailored, and classic in appearance. Same goes for the watch.
As for items with no price tag attached except your time and caring, remember that job hunters need support from their friends and family. What is support? It’s knowing when to speak up (not often) and when to listen (when hearing about an upcoming interview or debriefing when it is over).
The best career books have humor sprinkled throughout, so please peruse carefully before selecting a book as a gift. Bolles (of Parachute fame) and Anderson (The Career Clinic) are both writers who know how to turn a phrase, inspiring, engaging and entertaining the reader at the same time.
It’s hard to be a friend at a time like this. Your neighbor, co-worker, or relative may be emotional, short-fused, or needy right now: the most important thing you may do is remind the job hunter that something interesting will have happened by this time next year, and that you will be there throughout the search process.
If you have further suggestions for a meaningful holiday gift for someone searching for a job, please feel free to leave a comment.
November 17, 2008 at 9:10 pm |
This post hits home — I have many friends who are looking for jobs and I loved the suggestions — from top to bottom.
November 19, 2008 at 8:44 pm |
I love these suggestions too, and would even if my book didn’t make the list. I think the most difficult thing about knowing people who are looking for work is NOT knowing how to help. So thanks, Ann and Anne! Now, I think I’ll go shopping for a classier pen to use during my talk show. Maureen
December 5, 2008 at 3:40 pm |
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